No Sisters For Me
Posted by Unknown , Monday, April 16, 2012 10:21 AM
I have two little brothers. I remember when I was small, being walked across the street to a neighbors house to stay overnight. My mom was in labor, and my dad was dropping us off. I asked my dad what sex the baby was going to be. He said a boy. My head dropped, a loud sigh followed, and I remember thinking that it wasn't fair. I already HAD a brother, now I'll have two?? Why??? Mom came home with a redheaded little baby that looked nothing like Chris and I. I was SOOOOO disappointed. Where was my sister? Why couldn't I have a female sibling to be best friends with? Two boys were too many. We fought like animals constantly. Argued all the time. Poor mom. I don't think we got along once during the whole time we lived in the same house. Not to mention the car situation. When it was just Chris and I, we fit in the backseat just fine. Sure, Chris would be annoying me from his side of the car, but he couldn't quite reach me. We even got to sit in the front seat back then! Until that one time mom left us in an idling car in the garage. I put the car in drive and it went through the wall of the kitchen. Oops. But that's beside the point. When David and his car seat showed up, they hogged up all the room in the backseat. And as he got older, he squished me into the door. I appreciated nothing about having brothers until about ten years ago.
Awww, look, there's weird little David, and Chris, who only ate chocolate sundaes. No nuts.
This was life BD. Before David. Chris was much more manageable before David came along.
Chris and his wife Kim, David in the back. Life AD. After David. Chaos.
The one good thing about having brothers, video games were a constant, and I loved them. I still have not met a female who can match my skills on first person shooters, or Mortal Kombat. Brothers are good for that. And soccer scrimmages. Also, when stuff got broken in the house, it usually worked to blame them. Just kidding! Maybe. And I guess Chris and Dave make good uncles to my boys. Alright, ALRIGHT. They ARE good uncles. Just took me awhile to realize how nice siblings can be.I guess we've (and by we I mean me) matured over the years. I've learned there can be pros to having brothers.
Here's the thing. I never had sisters. And God knew best. I ended up giving birth to three boys. My kids love that I can do boy stuff with them. I never grew out of being a tomboy. God prepared me for this role from the beginning, surrounding me with crazy boys.
But I did wind up with sisters, too! Later in life God blessed me with quite a few sisters in Christ. And that's way better, because I'll know them for eternity! I can't even begin to tell you how thankful and blessed I am in the sister department. And I don't even deserve it.
Proverbs 11:14 Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety.
Proverbs 27:17 Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.
Proverbs 27:9 Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart, and the pleasantness of a friend springs from their heartfelt advice.






Tear :)....